Is my husband bisexual
Dear Dr. Olson,
Several months ago I met my partner at a party and we really clicked. He asked me out and we’ve dated since then. He treats me very well. A few months after we started online dating, he told me he thought he might be bisexual. He said he’s never been in a sexual relationship with a man, but he admits to having erotic fantasies when in the presence of attractive men our age. He admits those attractions are growing stronger. He vacillates between wanting a relationship with me and exploring his queer attractions. He doesn’t yearn to commit to me “until I understand my sexuality better.” Should I try to encourage him to stay with me or set him free to explore his sexuality? Am I being too old fashioned?
First let me say that most people who are bisexual will tell you that just because they&#;re bisexual doesn’t mean they cannot be monogamous. If you decipher through the comments on my essay “The Messy Realities of Bisexuality,” you will find many who say that whether you are bisexual or heterosexual, everyone experiences attractions to people outside their central relationship. But we also have a choice: to control those desires or act on them. Double attraction people are no
Discovered my husband is Bisexual
This is the link to a previous thread I share some experiences. I hope it helps you somehow.
I think to an extent, God is good because he opens your eye and permit you see the genuine person your husband is. You need to contemplate the dangers you are facing or exposing your children to.
I used to be like you, I would wait on msn and impersonate my old flame husband, try to trap and dig as much information as possible when I stumble upon the gay websites he was visiting and him webcam with them, send emails of his gross pictures to them That was before he refused to admit that he never met up with them.
His issue was, he was sexually abused by his uncle. Hence, he somewhat hated these people and love to entice them. He claimed that he would arrange orgy and sex parties but never meet up with them. Until I got some info about a rare g
jo_tadd said:
Hi Affranto
This is the link to a previous thread I share some experiences. I hope it helps you somehow.
I believe to an extent, God is good because he opens your eye and let you see the real person your husband is. You need to consider the dangers you are facing or laying bare your children to.
I was terrified to inform my husband of 5 years that I'm pansexual. When I finally came out, he told me he already knew.
Years ago, I was walking toward my boyfriend one afternoon. He was standing beneath an archway, and I was suddenly struck with the absolute truth that I would marry him someday. "Oh, my god," quietly escaped my lips. I smiled and continued walking toward him, much like I did on our wedding day.
Nine years later, I was jogging down the steps to a subway station, rushing to reach the platform before the train arrived. Suddenly, something clicked in my head, and I was struck with another absolute truth: I'm multi-attracted . I stopped dead in my tracks.
I'd been happily married for five years to my husband. I started to panic, wondering how I would inform him my truth when I barely understood it myself.
First, I spoke with other queer people to see whether I was really bisexual
The inner turmoil started to eat away at me. I felt uneasy — like I was keeping a grimy secret from my husband. I was lost, and I had no concept who to turn to.
Luckily, amazing LGBTQ people came to my rescue. I had some very eye-opening conversations with my pansexual and bisexual friend
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