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“Are you hung/XL”?
If you’re a queer guy, chances are that question has shaped a good chunk of your Grindr encounter. Sure, it’s a casually posed enquiry. But the question reinforces the stigma surrounding penis size – particularly in male-male hook-up culture – that drives many men to experience ashamed, embarrassed or undesirable.
“Whether or not your penis size is objectively above, below, or exactly average, what your anxious consciousness tells you might be quite different. Body dysmorphia is no joke, and mental health deserves to be taken seriously,” explains Dr Sam Miles, PhD research fellow in social science at the London School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine.
Having a preference is one thing. But as Sam tells me, certain preferences get idealised and strengthened through their repetition in media culture – with particular reference to porn and dating apps. The finding, of course, risks edging out bodies, people and identities perceived to be “different”.
When it comes to penis size in male-male hook up identity, individuals can end up afraid of dating, insert off sexual activity and in some cases abstain from sex altogether to remove themselves from the risk of bei
We’re here to help little gay and same sex attracted men (under 26) take control of their health.
We provide information on relevant health issues, and we offer a range of specific and general services delivered by attentive people who genuinely perceive the health issues affecting young gay and alike sex attracted men.
Our Perform With Young Gay Men
We run a range of FREE peer-led events, workshops and projects for homosexual and same-sex attracted guys aged 18-26.
Through our perform, we provide a place where young guys can meet each other and make new friends in a safe, social environment. Here they can participate ideas with their peers and learn more about identity, coming out, sex and sexual health, strong relationships and more.
Young lgbtq+ men have lower rates of HIV and sexual health testing than older members of the society. Of course, this makes sense. Only after people overcome the initial barriers to testing for the first time are they able to commit to a regular testing pattern. We help young guys to share their experiences around testing and realize why regular testing is important for all sexually active gay men.
We function in both a face-to-face capacity as well as online
Sexual health for homosexual and bisexual men
Having unprotected penetrative sex is the most likely way to pass on a sexually transmitted infection (STI).
Using a condom helps defend against HIV and lowers the risk of getting many other STIs.
If you’re a man having sex with men (MSM), without condoms and with someone fresh, you should have an STI and HIV check every 3 months, otherwise, it should be at least once a year. This can be done at a sexual health clinic (SHC) or genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic. This is important, as some STIs do not produce any symptoms.
Hepatitis A
Hepatitis A is a liver infection that's spread by a virus in poo.
Hepatitis A is uncommon in the UK but you can obtain it through sex, including oral-anal sex ("rimming") and giving oral sex after anal sex. MSM with multiple partners are particularly at risk. You can also get it through contaminated food and drink.
Symptoms of hepatitis A can show up up to 8 weeks after sex and involve tiredness and feeling sick (nausea).
Hepatitis A is not usually life-threatening and most people make a occupied recovery within a couple of months.
MSM can dodge getting hepatitis A by:
- washing hands after se
18."I'm 40, and I came out nearly about a year-and-a-half ago at 38. My wife passed away in January of 2019. About five or six years prior to her passing away, I started to realize that I wasn't straight, and figured I must have been bisexual, as I would only ever fantasize about men and watch homosexual porn exclusively. I was happily married with two kids. We had a normal marriage and sex life in every way. I kept my sexuality to myself, as I felt it was irrelevant and that there was nothing I could complete about it. I would never cheat on my wife, and I couldn't imagine hurting her or the kids by coming out and getting divorced. I resigned myself to holding onto this confidential forever. I felt mourn at times, because I met my wife at a young age (18), and she had been my only sexual boyfriend, and I knew that having a sexual or romantic experience with a man was something that I could never have."
"After she passed away, I started seeing a therapist for grief. I was holding onto an insane amount of guilt, though. Part of me felt responsible for her death, as if my creature bi or gay and that feeling of mourn somehow caused it. Eventually, I came out to my therapist and tediously started coming ou
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