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What Gay Men Should Await in a Relationship
Some queer men put up with a lot in their relationships. Their long-term partners will aggressively flirt with other men in front of them, go residence with a guy from the bar without any forewarning, sleep with ex-lovers without gaining consent from their current lover, or brag to their current boyfriends about the quality of their sex with strangers. Ouch.
Heres what I find most concerning. Some gay men dont perceive they have a right to be upset about these behaviors. Theyll demand me why they perceive so jealous and how can I help them let go of their jealousy. They think that the gay community believes in sexual freedom and it isnt cool or manly to object to their partners sexual behavior.
In other words, they experience shame for experiencing injure by the actions of their long-term partners.
Heterosexual couples get plenty of social support for treating their partners with respect when it comes to sex. Outrage is the usual social response when friends are told about broke relationship behavior among vertical people. When gay men tell the same heartbreaking stories they are less likely to get a big response. LGBTQ relationships are n
What Gay and Bi Men Really Want
Are physical and sexual attraction the most appealing qualities in a partner? Or are unseen qualities like good manners and reliability the most attractive?
Following on from his research into what vertical women want and what straight men want, D&M Research’s managing director Derek Jones has taken the next logical step with his latest study into what gay and bi(sexual) men want.
In order to dig deeper and tug out a true list of turn-ons and turn-offs for gay and bi men, Derek once again used of the Im-Ex Polygraph method. He originally devised this method of analysis to distinguish what people say they want from brands, products or services from what they really want by comparing stated versus derived measures of importance.
Qualities the queer and bi men said they desired in a partner (‘stated’) were compared to the qualities show in example celebrities they nominated as attractive (‘implied’). The same comparison was made between stated and implied negative qualities, to determine what attributes are really the biggest turn-offs.
What gay and bi men say they want
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Monkeypox: Why are gay and bisexual men more affected?
Regardless of sexual orientation, the main factor of propagation remains the multiplicity of sexual partners.
As of July 26, Monkeypox has not caused any deaths in Europe, but the disease is gaining ground. With nearly 17, cases worldwide, World Health Organization (WHO) director general Tedros Adhanom Ghebreyesus triggered the uppermost level of alert on monkeypox on July
Santé Publique France (SPF), France's public health agency, has recorded 1, patients in the country since May. 3% of those include been hospitalized. This epidemic differs from the waves observed so far in a dozen African countries, notably in the patients' profile: almost exclusively men, most of them males who have sex with males, known as "MSM" in the scientific community.
Read moreMonkeypox: How is it transmitted and what are the symptoms?
The question is why MSM are overrepresented among the affected. First, it is important to keep in mind that the SPF figures are still incomplete. Screening is just starting and complicated by the fact that symptoms are nonspecific. "This virus behaves like a great imitator of herpes or syphilis
Gay Men, It’s Time to Let Ourselves Be Slobs
You know that meme that’s always popping up on gay Instagram, the one about how “If his room looks like this”—this being a dingy, menacing cell with an uncovered mattress on the floor, dirty clothes strewn about, and an overturned lamp in the corner—“you grasp the dick is gonna be good”? You’d reflect it would make having a messy living room a badge of honor, but … not for me. More than once in the past year, I’ve turned down a hookup out of embarrassment about the state of my room, and I rarely feel comfortable hosting social gatherings or inviting new acquaintances to my apartment for fear of the less-than-stellar impression it might give. As a gay man, the cleanliness of my home and tastefulness of its decor have increasingly become sources of anxiety and shame.
I can’t help but reflect that my anxiety around cleaning and decorating mirrors other anxieties common in the gay community, particularly surrounding body image. There’s a sense of defeat I feel about my inability to maintain a spotless, impeccably stylish apartment decked out with vintage European furniture that is comparable, I’m sure, to how many gay men feel about thei
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